Why Divorce is Not the Solution
When you're in love, most of us would agree that marriage is a good thing. However, with changing times and demanding occupations, married couples today must navigate a slew of difficulties to ensure that their marriage will last a lifetime. But what happens when the one thing that drew them together dies away early in their marriage? Divorce is the only option for today's 20-something couples, but is it truly the best option?
"Today's couples are less patient and don't want to wait for their relationship to evolve," says Dr. Rajiv Anand, a relationship and marriage consultant. Instead, they expect everything to be flawless, impossible to achieve in a marriage."
A widespread trend among metropolitan couples is that impatience and unfulfilled expectations are to blame for the country's rising divorce rate. Having said that, these young couples leave quietly and without a fuss to pursue separate lives.
Let's look at the factors for an early divorce:
Couples in a fast-paced urban lifestyle rarely spend time together, which is essential for a new relationship. As a result, marriage is fraught with complications that can only be resolved via communication. "Most of these couples spend 8 to 10 hours away from home and so have no time to consult each other for anything," Dr. Anand explains.
Demanding jobs: Today's women expect to be treated equally with men. So, what happens when spouses have demanding jobs and careers to manage? When conflicts mount up for no apparent reason, things begin to deteriorate. "A certain amount of financial freedom brings them too much satisfaction; they realize much later that money is not everything to make a marriage work," Dr. Anand says.
Low levels of tolerance: Marriage necessitates tolerance and patience. Couples must follow them and collaborate to make this lasting connection a success. They must comprehend and value it rather than treat it as a regular duty. Nobody is the same, and not every clash is the end of life.
So, calling it quits early in your marriage isn't the answer after all. Instead, couples must virtually always strengthen their bonds with absolute conviction. Here's how it's done:
Low tolerance levels: Marriage necessitates tolerance and patience. Couples must follow them and strive together to make this lasting connection a success. They must comprehend and value it rather than treat it as a regular duty. No two people are alike, and not every quarrel is the end of life.
So, calling it quits on your marriage too soon isn't the answer after all. Instead, couples must nearly always work hard to strengthen their bonds. Here's how:
Nourish it: In order to flourish and prosper for a lifetime, a marriage must be nurtured. Please keep it safe because that is what brought the two of you together. An urban lifestyle may make couples stronger and more independent, yet no one wants to walk alone.
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